Love At The Right Time (Song 5:2 – 6:9)

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Love at the right time

Song 5:2 - 6:9

Pastor Jose Lam

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Love At The Right Time
Song 5:2 - 6:9


The love in song of songs find its expression in a relationship of total commitment to one another, that is in marriage. Therefore there are three warnings not to stir or awaken love before its time, and the whole song holds together the intensity of their longing for one another with their commitment not to come together until they are married.



1. Introduction

Introducing the ‘charges’ in the song and the tension they raise. How can express the passions of love while also express the patience of waiting for the right time?


2. The Object of Our Longing

Unpacking the passage. Exploring the example of how our lady talks about her lover and reflecting on how from a woman’s point of view, a woman may speak about her man.


3. Love at the Right Time

Hold up the charge laid amidst expressions of longing in our passage against the other three charges against awakening love before its time. Why does this tension exist, and what can we do about it?


4. Now and Not Yet

Expanding upon the tension of the Song to reflect upon the tension all God’s people bear with as we live between the cross and the resurrection.


Extraordinary General Meeting,  27th Nov 11am – 11:30am

in the sanctuary.  All ESCCC members must attend.  Agenda will be issued separately to ESCCC members.

Song of Songs sermon series in November

The Song of Songs is a celebration of romantic love expressed between a man and a woman within marriage under God. This celebration helps us better grasp the invitation God makes to everyone through Jesus to live with Him in His kingdom.


Why are we studying it?

  1. To build a theology of romantic love and desire
  2. To learn how we might express our own desires and our longings for that love to be returned in kind, and how we might support others to do likewise.
  3. To begin grasping the grand dimensions of God’s love toward us in Jeuss through the narrow yet rich and colourful lens of human romantic love.

Preliminary Theological Certificate (PTC)

A second 1.5-hour session for the Preliminary Theological Certificate (PTC) is planned to commence in T1 2023.

The Board of Elders commends the PTC as a worthy benchmark for elders and leaders of the church to aspire to and attain as a significant step in furthering your theological education. We would want for you to aspire likewise towards further theological education.

You can join PTC sessions purely to learn the course content, or you can enrol for exams which are administered online. Further information may be found at the PTC website:

Express your interest in joining the second session which will commence in term 1 next year, starting with the subject ‘Introduction to the Bible’. The day and time is TBC depending on people’s interest and availability. Please contact Ps Jose or send an email to

Baptism Service

Our next baptism service will be postponed to late Q1 2023. Further details will be published closer to the date.


Individuals wishing to baptized or confirmed should get in touch with Ps Jose and must apply in writing to the ESCCC Board of Elders (


Individual classes for men and women wishing to be baptised or confirmed at ESCCC are run as needed throughout the year. These cover the matters of personal faith, church membership and public testimony over the course of three sessions.


All baptism and confirmation candidates also participate in two group sessions in the two weeks leading up to the baptism and confirmation service, presenting their testimonies and learning about the baptism and confirmation service liturgy.

Electronic Giving

We give to what we love. Due to the restriction of our physical Sunday meetings as a loving precaution against the spread of COVID-19, we will not be able to collect a cash offertory as usual. Electronic giving instructions can be found on the Giving and Offerings page.

Missions Support

In support of God’s mission, we encourage all members to give regularly to the ESCCC Missions Fund, according to your means. The EFT details can be found on the Giving and Offerings page.


The Missions Fund will be allocated by the Missions Committee to bless ESCCC and our Mission Partners in missions work.

Prayer Meetings

Every Friday night from 8-9pm we meet over Google Meet and Sunday morning 9:00-9:30am over Zoom or in-person at church.

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Prayer and Praise

Next Week 27 November 2022

Song of Songs: Love Stronger Than Death

Song 6:10 - 8:14

Pastor Jose Lam


We long to see the Church being loved like Christ loves the Church.
As such we strive to care for people with the love of Christ and to prepare people to love like Christ.

The Pastors and Elders would love to serve you and help you to belong to God’s community here at ESCCC.


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